Ok so im living in an apt building for now soon 5 years and loved it. At the beginning it was just me and my bf and very old people. The building is old and has thin af walls. We had multiple neighbours prior, above us, and never heard a thing, maybe here and there. We also are not loud, maybe sometimes during the day we play louder music but thats it. Then the couple moved above us, veeery quiet, could not hear them talking or nothing. But they always produced sounds like they are moving furniture or shit falling down like always something so loud i even flinched at home. Then they started DEEP vacuuming every sunday at 8or9 am which i think its ridiculous and i went up and told them, if they could please keep the vacuuming to some later hours because its the only day we can sleep in and they said its not them but they stopped doing it. Then near them the couple moved in with a very crying baby and i went to them and asked if they hear it too and they were both very concerned for the baby and we all ringed to those neighbours and the crying stopped. Well, then all of a sudden this couple got pregnant!!! And since the baby arrived home its been crying NONSTOP, its now a 1year and 5 months old and still cries NONSTOP like, during the night 5 times, during the day 18 times. I never said anything even if i have to wear ear plugs in my own freaking bed because of these peple, but then the kid started wearing orthopedic shoes for inside and it was CONSTANT banging on the floor with these shoes all over the apt it was like the hammer was pounding on the walls and it was so horrible i went up and they said its not them (again omg). This banging started at 6am and until the baby went to bed 9pm… And then one sunday it was just too much, i got headaches and my mood decreased big time! Again they woke me up even though i had ear plugs. I went there and told them that they KNOW how the sounds travel here and that i accept i live in a building but they also have to accept that. Well. Now they dont greet me anymore. They dropped the shoes now that i went loco there but the crying baby is still on 24/7. They never apologised for the crying and/or ask if we can please accept it etcetc. They could come home and say hey we have this baby now we are going to be loud please pardon us and we will get through this together or something! No, nothing, even though i can hear everything every day nonstop-i can actually progress the babies development because i hear everything. Anywho, is it freaking normal for the babies to cry 1.5 years nonstop? And am i the asshole for being VERY BOTHERED AND UPSET BY IT?