“AITA for wanting to go nuclear on my unhinged mother-in-law?”
My dearest MIL stealthily canceled our honeymoon hotel reservation. For those of you who don’t know, I posted a few days ago about how my MIL and SIL went behind our backs and invited their friends to our wedding after we explicitly said no.
This incident happened about a week ago and just a few days after that, my MIL lied to the hotel reception, faking a phone call to cancel our honeymoon suite booking. She and my FIL were visiting Chicago (where we live) for 10 days to see their son.
My fiancé mostly stayed home during their visit to make the most of their time together. A few days ago, after breakfast, MIL asked to borrow his phone for an urgent call to her church, claiming her network was out of range.
Nothing about it seemed off so obviously he handed it over. Our best guess is that’s when she called the hotel, pretending to be me and told them we had to cancel because we were postponing our trip. Since the call went from my fiancé’s number and she claimed to be me, the hotel had no reason to question it. The cancellation went through and they even sent a confirmation email to his email (which was used at the time of booking). We’ve been super caught up in the thick of our wedding preparation, so he hasn’t been getting time lately to actively check his emails everyday. This morning, while looking through his inbox for a vendor detail, this cancellation mail caught him off guard.Three hours later, she finally called us when both of us raised hell on her. She tried red herring us with her BS, but after realizing we are on the verge of disinviting her from the wedding, she finally accepted what she did.When we asked her about the reservation details, she said she got it from Nate’s email when he gave her his phone unlocked for making the call. The fake story she tried to sell us was that she wanted to surprise us with a honeymoon suite at an even better hotel, as a wedding gift.Of course none of us bought that nonsense and Nate counter questioned her for details of this supposed new hotel. She started fumbling, spat out the name of some godforsaken random ass hotel in Rome and dodged the call saying she’s babysitting our nephew at the moment.We just called the rando hotel which is our “wedding present” you guys, and why am I not surprised there’s no effing room booked under either of our names, let alone suite. We tried booking ourselves again at hotel ‘X’ which we originally booked and our suite’s already gone to the person next in queue.We tried settling for other rooms but they said May’s the peak season in Europe, so they can’t accommodate us at the moment and will notify if something opens up later. I really wanna hop on the next flight to Ohio right now and go nuclear on her a&^.
Here’s what people had to say in response to the OP’s post:
Alert-Fee5079
I would never speak to this person again, blood or not. Hopefully your fiancé sees that too.
ParisInnTheRain (OP)
He sees right through her and is extremely furious at all this. Both of us tried to keep our cool for really long just to not cause any drama in the middle of the celebration. But she’s not an easy nut. HER SON HAS ALREADY TOLD HER SHE’S NOT GONNA BE A PART OF THE CELEBRATION ANYMORE. This is for anyone who’s thinking “why is she still invited.”
