So I’ve been with my fiancé for a year and a half now (romantic relationship wise), and our birthdays are a day apart. We love together and his little sister lives with us as she schools here. I wanted to go to this one restaurant for dinner and drinks on the weekend of our birthday, but he wants to bring his sister along.

Now I’m not a big fan of that, because she just ruins the mood and we’ve had an up and down relationship in the past as she always complained to her family and elder sister that she doesn’t like me and we don’t ever take her out on dates (she’s a big attention seeker).

On my fiance and I’s first anniversary I made it clear to him that I would like it to be just the 2 of us going out as our 1 year being together was a very special to me, in which he agreed but a day later he invited his mother and his sister to join us, and mind you I couldn’t say no because he told them to come without talking to me first.

Also I was paying that night. Now that our birthdays are coming up in 3 weeks he mentioned bringing his sister, I wouldn’t of minded but I just want to have a good time with him since I didn’t even get to spend quality time with him alone on our anniversary. Last year. Our birthdays are on a week day so we will have that chance to spend time with our family and have a small celebration, is it really that much of a problem that I want to spend that weekend with just him? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️