I (24m) was on a date last night. I had matched with this woman on Hinge and this was our first time meeting in person. We met for dinner and We were having a good time. After dinner we headed to a bar down the street and and after 1 drink, she was kind of slurring her words and spaced out. I’ll be honest, I was a little annoyed because I didn’t know how she could possibly be drunk as we’d only had 2 drinks at dinner and a pretty big meal. My only assumption is that she could have been drinking before the date? But she didn’t seem drunk when she first arrived.

I politely told her I was going to grab the check but as we were waiting/paying, she seemed to get significantly more incoherent by the minute. We had both taken an uber but I honestly felt weird sending her in an uber alone. She was practically falling asleep on the bar stool and the bartender was shooting me weird looks as if to say, “take her home.” So anyway I grabbed her phone and I was able to get her to unlock it using her Face ID. I called the number of the last person she was texting and told them what was going on. Luckily this person was a good friend and insisted on picking her up immediately.

I took her outside but I had to hold her up. Her friend arrived within 15 minutes but she looked at me like I was a creep. I apologized and her friend just kind of brushed me off, threw my date in the car, and left.

AITAH? Did I do the right thing? Should I have called the police?? I hope she’s okay but I can picture being out on one of those “are we dating the same guy” pages where she or her friend accuses me of drugging her. I’m not interested in a second date, but I do kind of want to make sure she’s okay. Would it be wrong to check on her? Would it be wrong to NOT check ? Honestly it’s possible some other creep working behind the bar slipped her something?? But idk what their motive would have been considering she was with me but who knows the mindset of people who do stuff like that. Or could she have been on something before she arrived and the alcohol just enhanced it?