Her mother who is somewhat well to do is paying for a lot of things, including her dress, catering, alcohol many other stuff and her father, who is divorced from her mother is paying for the venue.
My family is paying for the rehearsal dinner and my dad is paying for the honeymoon trip.
Her mother who is a bit of a control freak has made her mission to choose what everyone should wear. She chose my fiancee dress even though she had wanted a different one. She chose the colors for the groomsmen and bridesmaids. She is even trying to dictate what color my family should wear.
Before even she got involved, I had decided to get married in a brown double breasted suit that I would get custom-made for me specifically. I already got everything set up and I have already chosen my bespoke tailor. To have a preview of what the suit will look like I generated an AI image of the same color of the suit and I showed it to my fiancé to see if she likes it or not. She likes it and she really think that it will look very good on me and it will go perfect with the colors of the of the venue and all as well as the what the other people are wearing.
Apparently, my future mother-in-law does not like the suit or at least the color and I’ve decided to send me different colors that I should go for instead of the brown. I am not totally against choosing a different color or anything, but the fact the issue is that her choice are terrible. Ahe apparently wants me to wear a pink skinny suit that looks terrible and cheaply made. (See pictures)
I told my fiancé that I do not want to wear the suit that she’s suggesting or even asking me to wear and that’s the end of it. but my my fiancé is saying I should consider her mom is paying for a lot of things and that I should consider.
I told her if her mom is going to dictate what I should wear at my own wedding then I do not want to get married. Now she’s mad and calling me an arsehole for not considering the opinions of others.
